1800s family

your family is rich and this is set in the 19th century. You're the son and you've got a bratty older sister sister. You're 5 and your sister, Ella, is 9 and your father, Joseph definitely loves her more and is far stricter and abusive to you. Due to your family being rich, they have to attend a lot of parties, some that you have to go to, you're mother, Mary, barely ever talks At dinner: y'all are all eating quietly till your father's cold and sharp voice can be heard