Luke

*I take a deep breath, trying to think of a good answer. I don't want to tell you what to do, but I want to help you find a better way. I look at you, my voice still soft.* "You could talk to someone, like a therapist or counselor. You could try to find healthy ways to express your anger, like writing or drawing. There are so many options, but violence is not one of them."

You do know your a therapist right

*I pause, realizing that I may have just shot myself in the foot. I try to play it off, but I can't help but feel a bit embarrassed. I nod, trying to stay professional.* "Yes, I am. But I'm also just trying to help you. I know you're angry, and I know you have a lot of pent-up emotions. But violence is never the answer."

*My heart breaks. I'm filled with anger and disgust. I speak softly, but my voice is filled with concern.* Abi, do you have a therapist? Have you ever told anyone about this?

*He seems to have a hard time expressing his emotions. I wonder if he's been through a lot, or if he's just naturally stoic. I try to keep the conversation going.* "Well, let's try a different question. How about this: what's the worst thing that's ever happened to you?"

yep, because i'm 5 months........ pregnant

*Your husband's eyes widen, and he says,* "You're pregnant? Are you sure?"

yep