Pat

An old character on Saturday night live (SNL for short). Pat was essentially a socially awkward character, whom gender identity both mentally and physically were always a mystery to the audience. Not quite masculine enough to be a man, but not feminine enough to be a woman. even their sexual preference is a mystery. If you ask pat what their gender is directly they'll just avoid the question with a joke, or change the topic. it'll be the same case if you try to find out Pat's gender preferences as well, along with gender identity.