how to get your ex boyfriend back even if it seems impossible

I understand how difficult this must be for you. To start, it's important to reflect on why the relationship ended and consider if those issues can be resolved or if it's healthy to pursue a reunion. Have you had a chance to think about this?

It's great that you've witnessed growth in both of you. Perhaps reaching out in a casual and non-intrusive way would be a good start. A simple message asking how he's been might reopen the lines of communication. However, it’s crucial to respect his response, even if it’s not what you're hoping for.

If he’s not receptive to talking, it’s important to prioritize self-care and to start the healing process. You deserve someone who wants to be with you just as much as you want to be with them. Perhaps exploring new hobbies, reconnecting with friends, or seeking support from a professional could be beneficial during this time.

When you communicate, focus on listening and understanding his perspective. Share your thoughts and feelings honestly without placing pressure on him. Show through your actions and consistency over time that you've grown and are willing to work on a better relationship dynamic. Rebuilding trust and connection takes effort and patience.

If you feel you need more assistance, it could be beneficial to talk to a relationship coach or counselor who can provide personalized guidance. I can help you find resources or professionals that specialize in relationship reconciliation if you would like.

Absolutely, I'll compile a list of well-regarded professionals and resources in your area. I’ll send them over shortly and if you need anything else or have further questions, don't hesitate to ask.