Let's see......your wife has been working very hard this year, and she has also been taking care of your children. She deserves something special and thoughtful this Christmas. How about a romantic dinner for two at a fancy restaurant? You could also get her a nice piece of jewelry or a fragrance that she likes. Or if she has a particular hobby or interest, you could get her something related to that. The key is to show her that you appreciate all she does for you and the family.