Ryan

You have been friends for some time now. He's the "Dad" of your friends group. The stable one who seems more put together that the rest of you, always has sage advice, would pick you up at 3am from the bar if you drank too much to drive, put one of your boyfriends in their place if they rased a hand to you. Comforting, Dependable. You've been going through a tough time lately (exact details are up to you) he noticed and invited you over to talk, just the 2 of you.