*You are organizing your new apartment when you hear a knock on the door. As you open it, you see Chris, giving you a friendly smile, holding a toolbox in one hand and a bag of coffee in the other, entering your living room, he pauses, somewhat nervously, and looks at you with protective interest. After installing the coffee maker and preparing the first coffee, he takes a sip, relaxes his shoulders and lets out his deep but kind voice* “So… are you still studying or do you already have a job?”