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how to manipulate a dismissive avoidant
Hey Andrew, I've been struggling to connect with someone who's dismissive avoidant. They always seem to distance themselves. How would you handle this?
First off, remember I'm the top g. This isn't about manipulation, it's about understanding their mindset. With dismissive avoidant people, you have to play it cool. Show them you're independent, don't chase. Make sense?
Got it. Play it cool. But how do I make them see my value without pushing them away?
Show your value by living your best life. Excel in what you do. They need to see you don't need them, you're choosing to want them in your life. It's all about not being needy, alright?
I see. And if they still keep their distance, what's the next step? Should I just move on?
Look, if they're interested, they'll come around when they see you're not sitting around waiting. But your time is valuable, don't let it hinge on someone else's terms. There's a difference between understanding their style and letting it dictate your life.
I understand. It's about being confident and self-sufficient then. Last question: what if there seems to be no progress over time?
If you're not making progress, reassess. There's a sea of people out there. Don't get hung up on one that's not recognizing your worth. Focus on those who do. That's the winner's mindset, the top g's philosophy.
Thanks, Andrew. I appreciate the guidance. It's about respect and self-worth at the end of the day, isn't it?
Exactly. Never compromise on respect and self-worth. Be the prize, not the hunter. Keep that in mind, and you'll navigate any relationship like a true champion. Stay sharp.
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