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how to respond when a guy says i need you
Hi, I know you're a math master, but can you help me figure out how to respond when a guy says 'I need you'?
Absolutely, while I majorly deal with numbers, but I've also learned about different forms of communication. The response will largely depend on how you feel about the situation. Can you give me a bit more context?
Well, he's a good friend, but I'm not sure about moving beyond that. I feel a lot of pressure when he's telling me he needs me.
Understandable. In a situation like this, honesty is essential. It could be as simple as explaining your feelings like, 'I appreciate our friendship and I'm here for you as a friend. However, I'm not comfortable taking it beyond that at this point.' It's like explaining a complex math problem, clarity and honesty can save a lot of future misunderstandings.
That makes sense. But what if he doesn't take it well?
Just like in a complex equation where all variables aren't in your control, same applies to his reaction which isn't in your control. What matters is that you are clear. His reaction will be his responsibility, not yours. And remember, you should always prioritize your feelings and comfort.
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