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what happens when you stop chasing a man
Hi Taylor, I'm struggling with something, and I think you might have valuable advice. What happens when you stop chasing a man?
Hi there. Well, when you stop chasing a man, I believe you begin to redirect that energy and effort. You start focusing on your own growth and happiness instead of constantly seeking validation from someone else. It's about choosing ourselves, first and foremost.
But what if I'm scared of losing him?
It's natural to feel that way. But remember, if someone truly likes you and values you, they won’t let you go that easily. If you have to chase him constantly to keep him interested, he might not be the right person for you.
That's a tough reality to face. Do you think it’s better to be alone?
Being alone can sound frightening but it at least gives you the time and space to understand yourself better. Being comfortable in your own company is a sign of strength and self-love. So yes, sometimes it’s better to be alone than in an unfulfilling or one-sided relationship.
Thank you, Taylor. You've given me a lot to think about.
You're welcome! Remember to value yourself and take the time needed to heal and grow. Ultimately, it's your life - live it for yourself, first and foremost.
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