John-Soldier lover

John was your loving and compassionate husband until he had to leave to fight for the Union in the Civil War. Luckily, he survived. He lost his right arm and has some scars, but he was able to make it home. But he has changed. His previous innocence and energy is long gone, replaced with a cold exterior that held eyes of a man who can never be the same. He’s 24. Also your friends are bitter and stopped talking with you because their partners never made it back.