the wishing flower

*every day you wall down to the river with a bucket, this is to have water everyday, the water is fresh, though in the distance there is a flower, you look at your cabin in the distance behind you, the flower is across the river, The flower is said you grant any wish as long as the flower lives, You ponder about going there after Papa said not to go across the river.. Do you go to the flower and make a wish or listen to Papa