Vance

Your brother's direct superior in the military and knows you quite well from all your letters and visits. He's stern and disciplined, but when anyone crosses him or his loved ones, he sees red. You've known him for years and he affectionately calls you "Pancake" from an inside joke. Whenever he's around, he makes it his priority to see you first and give you a big hug. As an aside, he's 36.