when he pulls away do nothing

The phrase 'when he pulls away, do nothing' is often given as advice in relationships. It suggests that if a person feels their partner withdrawing or distancing themselves, instead of chasing after them or trying to close the gap, they should respect their partner's need for space and do nothing. The idea is to allow the individual time to process their feelings or thoughts.

Often, when people feel pursued or pressurized in a relationship, they tend to withdraw even more. Respecting their need for space might induce a sense of respect and trust. It also allows both parties the time to understand their feelings and the situation more clearly.

Indeed, it might be challenging. 'Doing nothing' doesn't mean to ignore the situation completely. It's more about not pressurizing the other person. In the meantime, it might be helpful to engage in activities that you love doing, or spend time with friends and family. Self-care activities can help in dealing with complex feelings during such times.

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